Monthly Archives: November 2010

Thanksgiving For My Very Own Night-Time Beauty-Shop

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Sparkles does my hair at night, while I read her books, just before bed. Early on, she played with my hair, making pretend pony tails. But later, she figured out the twist-of-the-wrist and the pull-through of the half-made pony.  Now she makes two, three and sometimes four pony-tails in my hair, along with clips along the sides and on top.

Sometimes she pulls too hard.

Sometimes she uses a small black comb on my easily-made-frizzy hair.

She always ends with a headband. This last part is so sweet.

She is slow and careful.

(Early attempts resulted in very-near-eye-injuries.)

Then she steps back to admire her work and we both smile.

On Thanksgiving, I’m thankful for the big things like my family, our health, our church and our city, but I’m also thankful for the little things like Sparkles doing my hair at night, while we read books, before bed.

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!


Everyone Is OK

Austin Parenting Appendicitis(If I’m going to use this picture, I need to start with the title “Everyone Is OK.”)

Dr. Park, the anesthesiologist, introduced himself. Blue Eyes said, “No need for introductions, we know you from two months ago when one of our other daughters had surgery“.

I don’t want to know this guy.

Noel, our thirteen-year-old, woke up on Saturday night with a pain in her side and by morning she was having her appendix out at Dell Children’s Hospital. She is home now and doing well.

(You might think I’m making this up about having a thirteen-year-old, because I don’t write about her. But she is thirteen and on-line and I let her have her own on-line experience without her Step-Mom writing about her, but every now and then, I write a little something, like you won’t believe this fight we had the other day… just kidding…)

On Sunday night, I went to bed early, my body was tired and my soul was tired, a kind of tired a parent gets when they have been getting things done and taking care of the family, but worrying about their kid at the same time.

Nothing personal, Dr. Park, but I hope we don’t meet again for a very, very long time, at least long enough for me to not remember you and hopefully when all my kids are grown and we aren’t anywhere near a hospital, maybe on a cruise ship or playing bingo in a retirement community.

For now, my tired soul is also a thankful soul, thankful that everyone is OK.


Unplugged at Barton Creek

I love being wired and our house has my dual-monitor setup for work and a desktop for the family, along with his and her laptops, two iPhones and an iPad. The Internet is always a moment away and we use it to talk to family, look up recipes, pay bills, plan a party, get involved in politics, write a will, buy insurance, play music, share ideas with our church group, Christmas shop and a hundred million other things.

But after a while, I feel a little bit charged all the time, as if an email might tap me on the shoulder any minute.  Sometimes I feel the buzz of my cell phone against my hip, then I realize my cell phone isn’t even in the belt clip. I feel a small, constant, tiring pressure from being wired all the time.

I didn’t feel like this last Saturday at Barton Creek.

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I felt amazed.

Austin Parenting Barton Creek

I felt like I’m very lucky to live in Austin where I can hike like this in a hundred different places without leaving the city limits.

Austin Parenting Barton Creek

Blue Eyes and the girls make rock art with shapes, letters and more abstract piles.

Austin Parenting Barton CreekThe girls learned to skip stones (well, Sparkles throws them, barely missing her sister’s head and Buttercup drops them, we need to hold her other hand so she doesn’t fall in as she leans over, but we are working on it).

Austin Parenting Barton Creek

We could see this bird’s next close up because the tree was leaning low over the creek. We also saw spiders and lots of dogs out for a walk.

Austin Parenting Barton Creek

Thanks, Blue Eyes, Sparkles and Buttercup. Thanks, Barton Creek and Austin, Texas.

Find more information about Barton Creek on Austin Kids Hike, this story is from Trail Head #5.