ACL Musicians Can Help You Get More Sleep

Play Date

Play Date plays on the Austin Kiddie Limits stage.

Today is the last day in the series of posts with answers to everyday parenting questions, answered by ACL musicians. First, we talked about lullabies for babies, then practice vs, inspiration in teenagers, then what to do if you don’t like your kids music. Now, for answers to the most requested question of all, related to lullabies but different, how do you get the little kids to go to sleep? It’s so important because when kids get more sleep, you get more sleep.

  • Survey answer #1: Routine. Whatever it is that you do, do it the same each night. It’s a harder discipline for the grown-ups than the kids sometimes, but it’s worth it.
  • Survey answer #2: Run ’em real good. Tire them out. Wrestling, tickling, tag in the house, whatever it takes.
  • Survey answer #3: Dancing, playing music and singing followed by reading, cuddling, talking, making up silly stories, making up silly songs and sharing happy thoughts. I must say, I totally want to go to bed at these two houses: Brian Vander Ark’s from The Verve Pipe and Kristen Geller from the Andy Z and the Andyland Band. I might show up one night. Really.

Some folks suggested specific songs, shows or stories to play real quiet, maybe in a loop, as they fall to sleep.

  • Ian Bevis from Bear Mountain recommended Stairway to Heaven, which does have a dreamy vibe, but I don’t know what I would say if they asked me what it means. Does anyone know what it means?
  • Tim Kubart from Tim and the Space Cadets recommends PBS Sprout’s “Goodnight” show.
  • Andy Zamenes fr0m Andy Z and the Andyland Band recommends Andy Z and the Andyland Band musical stories. Which is totally fair, since kids are his specialty.
  • Greg Attonito and Shanti Wintergate from Play Date both recommended the Play Date song written for bedtime, “AYO.” I recommend it to. I might even sing it to myself tonight as I try to sleep.
  • Gordy Quist from The Band of Heathens has also written his own lullaby. He wrote this as a gift to parents everywhere looking for restful sleep. God Bless him. It’s a free download here. It’s beautiful.

Many thanks to all the musicians who took part in the interviews: Rev. Sterling Lands II from The Warrior Gospel Band, Gordy Quist from The Band of Heathens, Shanti Wintergate, Greg Attonito and Rick Silvestri from Play Date, Andy Zamenes and Kristen Geller fr0m Andy Z and the Andyland Band , Brian Vander Ark from The Verve Pipe , Johnathan Terrell from Not In the Face , Seth Goldstein from The Ohmies, Tim Kubart from Tim and the Space Cadets, Kevin Russell from Shiny Ribs, Arlene Bell from Disciples for Christ, Kevin Marks from JC Brooks and the Uptown Sound, Rick Carney, Music Director for School of RockElizabeth McQueen from Asleep at the Wheel, Ian Bevis from Bear Mountain and Scott Mills from CALEB.

Thank y’all for taking a listen to all that was ACL this year. Stay tuned for a last post with just a few more thoughts.


ACL Musicians Save You From Justin Bieber

Growing Up Austin - Courtyard Hounds

Courtyard Hounds make music with Emily Erwin and Martie Maguire’s kids on the Austin Kiddie Limits stage

Like I said yesterday when we talked about practice/inspiration, and the day before that when we talked about lullabies, I have answers to real questions from ACL 2013 musicians. Today’s topic is Question #3 – “What do you do if your kid likes music that you really don’t like?”

I lied about saving you from Justin Bieber. I don’t know what made me do it. Maybe I was just trying to get your attention.

The ACL musicians we talked to thought alike on this one, with 11 out of 17 saying some form of “Suck it up.” (Well, assuming it isn’t offensive or age-inappropriate.) Brian Vander Ark from The Verve Pipe goes so far as to say, “You’re not SUPPOSED to like your kids’ music. That’s how music evolves!” Rick Silvestri from Andy Z and the Andyland Band brought up a point that is difficult to argue, “A child is a person.” And each person gets to have their own opinions.

The second-most mentioned suggestion (6/17) went further, recommending some form of “Listen and learn.” This was Rev. Sterling Lands II’s whole answer, “I listen and learn.” I like this one. Music can be a great way to connect with someone, either because you share common tastes or because you take the time to really listen to each other’s playlists all the way through.

Kristen Geller from the Andy Z and the Andyland Band and Kevin Russell from Shiny Ribs  both said music should bring people together and be fun, not create trouble. There are enough other things to fight about, right?

One fun thing to do is make music together, like the Courtyard Hounds on the Austin Kiddie Limits stage on Friday. Emily Erwin and Martie Maguire joined their girls on stage, first for a few songs together, then a few acapella songs just by the girls. There were two proud and loving Mamas on that stage, their smiles beamed all the way to the taxis.

I will tell you one music taste I really don’t like. It’s the one that says my taste is better than yours. There are limited cases when this might be logical, like if you are applying for a job to review music based on standards and you have special training or experience. But, for every other time, which is almost all the time, there is no such thing. I tell my girls, you like music that makes you happy and don’t let anyone tell you any different. It doesn’t matter if it’s smart or new or popular or indie or pop or classic rock-n-roll, it just matters if it makes you happy.

Which is why I can sing all the words to Justin Bieber’s “Boyfriend.”

“If I was your boyfriend, I’d never let you go

I can take you places you ain’t never been before

Baby take a chance or you’ll never ever ever know…”

Stay tuned tomorrow for the last question in this series, which is one you really don’t want to miss, “Do you have any tips for getting the young ones to bed at night?” More sleep awaits you…

 


ACL Musicians Help Raise Your Teenager

Elizabeth McQueen

Elizabeth McQueen playing with Asleep at the Wheel on the Lady Bird stage

Like I said yesterday when we talked about lullabies, I have answers to real questions from ACL 2013 musicians. Today’s topic is Question #2 – “If you met a teenage musician and she asked, “What is more important, to be inspired or to practice?”, what would you tell her?”

Everyone said “both” in one form or another.

Maybe inspiration and practice are like the chicken and the egg, you have to have both and one leads to the other. But which comes first?  Please, ACL musicians, give us a clear and definitive answer…

Out of 17 musicians…

  • 8 said practice
  • 6 said inspiration
  • 4 said both equally

Yes, very clear. Thanks, y’all!

Tobias Winkerton from Junip had an interesting response. He recommended practicing on being inspired. I think I know what he means from my writing.

I need to pay attention to how inspiration works for me, so I can nurture it and give it room and light. I don’t get inspired when I’m too busy or trying to work to fast. I get inspired when I look at something from the side at an angle instead of head on.  When inspiration first starts, it feels like a headache. Like there are no words in the English language for what I want to say. Like I want to turn off the computer and go to sleep, I think because I’m tired but really because I’m afraid I won’t be able to do it. I’ve had to practice being aware of that feeling and working through it until I get to that place were it all feels good.

Well, Tobias, maybe that isn’t what you meant, I was just imagining.

Stay tuned for more answers to your parenting questions. Next, find out what you should do if your kids like really crappy music. And they want to listen to it in the house. And on road trips. Ahhhh!

Many thanks to the practice folks:
Rev. Sterling Lands II from The Warrior Gospel Band, Gordy Quist from The Band of Heathens, Rick Silvestri from Andy Z and the Andyland Band, Andy Zamenes fr0m Andy Z and the Andyland Band , Brian Vander Ark from The Verve Pipe , Johnathan Terrell from Not In the Face , Tim Kubart from Tim and the Space Cadets, Seth Goldstein from The Ohmies

the inspiration folks:
Shanti Wintergate from Play Date , Greg Attonito from Play Date, Kevin Russell from Shiny Ribs, Arlene Bell from Disciples for Christ, Kevin Marks from JC Brooks and the Uptown Sound, Rick Carney, Music Director for School of Rock

and the both folks:
Kristen Geller from the Andy Z and the Andyland Band, Elizabeth McQueen from Asleep at the Wheel, Ian Bevis from Bear Mountain, Scott Mills from CALEB